Do you want any thing, person, feeling, experience-anything that you have waited for long ?
Does people, circumstances, events ,anything stop you from achieving you your dream?
Do you feel you are powerless or feel you deserve something better ?
If all or some of the above is true for you, then I must tell you, this was same for me. But it 'was' like that. Not now. Today, I can do, achieve,have, creat, experience anything I like and I have discovered that all this has been possible because of a power from within. All power to have, do, create, change, feel, etc. is within you.
Let people, circumstances, events suggest you what is possible and you'll live the same old life and be nothing. Believe in your thoughts, direct your thoughts, take chances whenever given and you'll rock, literally rock. Just give it a try. Its a awesome life after all.